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[17 Jun 2006|09:36pm]

I'm Louise, I'm 16 and have never really been confortable with myself It started three years ago after I was raped and since then my life has spiralled downward. Recently things have been picking up with the help of my boyfriend, he treats me like a godess. But I still can't help but feel insecure. I regularly get jokes about my weight and overall apearance by my family and some so called 'friends' And I know I'm gonna get people telling me positives, but I'd also like for people to say if they see any flaws. So here is me meCollapse )
3 said no.x ugly?

[27 Nov 2005|06:46pm]


hey, I'm new.

My friends and family tell me i'm pretty, but behind my back everyone says that i'm ugly, and it always gets back to me.


please, give me opinions. DO NOT LIE. if i'm ugly, rip me apart. i want to know waht to change.


i'm not here and this isn't happeningCollapse )

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hey [21 Jun 2005|12:11pm]

it seems that a lot of people flock here
its like the haven for people who don't think that much of themselves

instead of gathering and making the quote" Misery loves company" come alive
you guys should try to break that inner voice that tells you that you're not significant
its the negative thoughts that fuel this inner cynicism towards self

Love yourself unconditionally

these words may sound really corny, but beating yourself up constantly isnt ever going to help your self esteem... you have to be able to see your flaws and acknowledge that everyone isnt perfect... and forgive yourself for all the mistakes youve made and try to love yourself no matter what. Because if you have no one, but you have yourself, and a small bit of confidence you have everything.

its still a struggle for me, but im trying, and i know im going to get there

this is really cheeseball but its true
self esteem affects every area of your life
start somewhere

[26 Apr 2005|05:24pm]


all my friends say im gorgeous.. but my own sister calls me ugly.. i dont know who to go with..


Got any comments? Look here.. Collapse )
5 said no.x ugly?

[07 Mar 2005|08:11pm]


Well, I haven't posted in here before...but I'm feel really bad and ugly and erg this can go on...


I can hide foreverCollapse )

2 said no.x ugly?

[01 Aug 2004|01:31am]

[ mood | crappy ]

Hey everyone. *Newbie-ness*...I hope to connect with people on certain levels, share and help.

As for myself?...gah where do I begin?


4 said no.x ugly?

well this new goal of mine is off to a good start! [21 Jul 2004|11:31am]

[ mood | determined ]

Yesterday I started this workout, I did it for 35 minutes. I am about to go work out again before i get into the shower. Then off to apply for jobs.

I just hope that my motivation stays high for this workout? If I can continue doing this and find a job rather quick like, then maybe my mind will be too busy to think about my ex Buck, or think negative about myself.

I really need to stop doing that, it isnt my fault about Buck and I, I mean he is the one that ruined this relationship. It isnt my fault what that jerk Cory did to me. { to keep my privacy all I can say is that he " Taught me a Lesson " his words. } Buck kicked me while i was down, well its my turn to prove to these jerks, that i am too good for them, I am better than them, and most important, I am stronger than they think I am.

Hopefully that will keep my strive up and going.

3 said no.x ugly?

New community [20 Jul 2004|12:01pm]


please go join it! thanks

[10 Jul 2004|11:48pm]

[ mood | sick of myself and love ]

wow...everyone must have improved their self-esteem, because this community seems a little......dead. that's great.

but seriously...where's the love?

5 said no.x ugly?

[05 Jul 2004|05:29pm]

[ mood | distressed ]

What else is there to say? It's the same ol' bloody depressing story it's always been. I hate the way I look and I'm tired of dealing with this pathetic issue, of love and hate and rejection. I'm tired of it running through my mind constantly. I promised myself and the people on my friends' list that I wasn't going to talk about this again. But I guess I just broke that promise, now didn't I? I don't know what to do. I'm always worrying about what people think of me. I hate making people aggravated by me. I even aggravate myself at times.

........man, I can't stand myself!


Newbie... [01 Jul 2004|11:36am]

[ mood | crappy ]

Hey, I'm new :) I joined this community because I've realized over the past few months that I have a serious issue with my self-esteem. It's not that I don't have self-confidence, I'm not shy and I love to be the center of attention (I sing, act, dance and love to be on stage) and I'm not afraid to be a total goofball! It's not even my body, I'm just about 5'3 and I weigh around 125-128 and wear a size 4-6 in most brands. It doesn't even bother me that I have a "pooch" and my thighs aren't as toned as they could be as that is my fault for sitting on the couch and eating too much fatty bad for me foods!

The big problem is my face...I absolutely HATE how I look, I see myself in the mirror, even when my hair looks great and I have makeup on I still cringe. I'm a few weeks shy of turning 19 and I feel like I still look 15 and I have a fair amount of baby fat on my face that doesn't help the situation. If you were to see a picture of my face you would think I was 50-60 pounds heavier than I really am. I hate my nose (it's big) and because I have a fat face (it's like a fat oval shape) my eyes and lips (which are actually GOOD features) get lost and the focus (IMO) goes to my big nose and chubby cheeks.

I don't know what to do and I constantly find myself complaining and even I'M sick of it :( I just want to feel pretty again, Hell, I can't even accept it when a friend tells me I'm pretty because I find it impossible to believe. Another thing that doesn't help is that in terms of personality I'm really confident, I flirt a lot with guys and am friendly and have a good sense of humor, etc...But I've never had a boyfriend for more than a month (and there has only been one REAL case of that)...Guys aren't interested in me, plain and simple...It's not that I am dying to be in a relationship because i'm happy being single, I've just never felt "Wanted" by a guy and the aforementioned one month "real relationship" was with a guy who wanted me a little too much and it was a little creepy.

Anyway, any advice would help...I'm hoping this is a phase I'm about to grow out of and that I'll learn to find the beauty in myself and stop whining about this....Thanks everyone


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[12 Jun 2004|07:18pm]

I'm sorry, but I can no longer use this journal...please forgive me for the inconvenience (sp?)

4 said no.x ugly?

[12 Jun 2004|01:29pm]

This is one of the days where I'm feeling so low that I think I'm so fat...and I strive for perfection...looking into the mirror and telling myself that I'm wrong doesn't do me any good...

[08 Jun 2004|03:52pm]

The worst part of feeling low is how you got to feeling that low. Hearing that people call me an Anorexic Slut does not help at all. Looking into the mirror and seeing myself just makes me cringe. I want to break my mirror today. Maybe tomorrow will be a better day. Maybe. I can only wish...
4 said no.x ugly?

newbie [05 Jun 2004|09:50pm]

[ mood | ditzy ]

Hi, I'm Nicole.  I have nooo self esteem period so i decided to join this if you wanna know more about me look me up!

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4 said no.x ugly?

new here [04 Jun 2004|08:40am]

[ mood | sleepy ]

Hi guys, well my name is Ashe, I live in SC and well duh I have hardly any self esteem what so ever. Part of it (I think) comes from always being friends with the rich pretty (perfect) girls in school. a small part comes from the fact that I have never been loved, and the rest I think is the fact that im shy around almost everyone.
Anyhow, the actual normal friends that I have are out going and loud, so they really dont understand the trouble I have with self esteem, and of course I preppy ppl dont understand any form of conflict hardly so I could never talk to them about it. Sooo, thats what I'm here.
I'm fairly good at posting and commenting on communities and at the moment I'm making one of my own. But anyhow, hope yall dont mind my being here or anything, and I hope to be talking to some of you.



New [29 May 2004|12:19am]


Hi, I'm Katie. I'm new here. I decided to join, because I too, always get a low self esteem. Peoples comments can really get to me. I joined this because I want to talk to other people who have a low self esteem like me. I think it'd be nice to talk to people that do...and, because, I can always help cheer people up:)

pictures of me...Collapse )


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Getting A Few Things Of My Chest [18 May 2004|08:54pm]

[ mood | blank ]

While at a local punk rock gig this weekend while in the toilets i overheard some girls being really nasty about me saying stuff like "Shes fat and ugly, no one even likes her why does she come to these gigs? no one wants her here" im not sure whether they knew i was in one of the cubicles or not but these things still hurt me and once they had left i ran over to where some of my friend were sitting and spent most of the evening crying...my friends were quick to reassure me but i always assume people will hate me and the things these girls said make these feelings of unacceptance rise up again...personally ive always hated the way i look no matter how many people tell me im cute/pretty or gorgeous...things people have said to me my whole life make me think the opposite. Ive even had family members {aunts and uncles} tell me im ugly and that i should lose some weight. yes im not happy with it and yes i diet but im not about to take a quick fix diet or become bulimic.
I have a general distrust of most people especially men ever since my stepfather {who has since left us} hit both me and my mum...he also held up a knife to my throat...and was the starter of my untrusting nature.
I dont know what im trying to portray over then that i think people dont like me cause of this untrusting thing cause i seem untouchable or so ive been told.
Anyway i had to get all that off my chest.
A Few Pictures Of MeCollapse )

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[05 May 2004|03:30pm]

well i dont mean to harsh but i was looking through other ppl's posts on this and its obvous that ppl are crying out for help but no one is helping them. no reply backs for most of them. how are ppl meant to feel better or look at things in a different perspective if ppl dont talk or help them. all you need is someone to listen to ya
10 said no.x ugly?

[05 May 2004|03:23pm]

no one has wrote in this in a while
well ive just been feeling like shit the past few days with everything. i really feel ugly not jus on the outside but inside i feel ugly too.i hate the way i look. what makews it worse is the way people look at ya aswell makes you feel like shit
4 said no.x ugly?

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